Erin and Cam’s wedding was a joyful, deeply personal celebration tucked into the rolling charm of Spring Hill, Tennessee. Overflowing with soft pastels, heirloom details, and family-centered moments, their day felt less like an event and more like a heartfelt gathering of everything and everyone they love. With personal notes left at each guest’s seat and floral-filled vases lovingly sourced by the bride’s mother, this celebration was layered in intention.
From surprise dances with family to sentimental gifts exchanged in quiet moments, every part of their day was a reflection of connection, presence, and enduring love. The setting was romantic and timeless, the energy full of gratitude — and the memories, unforgettable.
How did you two meet? What were your first impressions of one another?
Our paths crossed for the first time in 2020 while we were both dating other people. Call it a coincidence or fate but Cam moved into the guy that I was seeing at the times place. Looking back there was an undeniable peace and comfort after first meeting each other. Cam was pursuing another girl at the time and even though I was not directly interested in him it was apparent how much we had in common and how much we enjoyed each others company. In fact, I thought he was so great and someone I knew had to meet this amazing man! I tried to set up my friends with him but they were all “to tall”. So glad none of those interests came to fruition. We started as simply friends but flash forward over a couple years later and our paths crossed again. This time, we were both single and in really exciting places in our lives. It was funny because we were not necessarily seeking each other out, actually I reached out first to get some help with a new career change. However, a text to get some interview help turned into a FaceTime catch up, which then led to a month of late night calls. Cam formally asked me with an invite to grab a “business” coffee via. Google calendar. I accepted and a 7 am meeting that was with my spouse to last an hour quickly became three hours. We knew we were in trouble from that day on.
My first impression of Cam was his humble confidence, his strong ability to listen and he was so intentional in his friendships. He had a kind-hearted demeanor and a sense of humor I clicked with immediately.
Cam’s first impression of me was “I thought you were stunning and sweet — a rare combo”.
Since we have been together our relationship with God is stronger, relationship with friends are deeper, and relationship with our individual selves are healthier.
Tell us a funny story relating to your wedding day or relationship!
Our wedding night was full of spunk!
To start our friends Alexis and Hunter made a choreographed routine to our first dance song which we performed in the beginning of our reception. This was hilarious because Cam and I are not the best dancers but we got to surprise everyone with our choreography and song choice. Our first dance song (“When I Look at You” – Miley Cyrus) we both randomly qued up at the same time on a long road trip after searching for hours. It could not have been better!
Half way through the reception my bridesmaids performed a surprise dance to super trooper and soldier boy which included my grandma, mother, mother in law, and aunts. This was hands-down the biggest surprise of the day and an iconic moment full of laughs for both me and Cam to enjoy. I am the biggest fan of Mamma Mia along with any form of exciting entertainment. They really went the whole nine yards with microphones, and big colorful boas. It was a core memory. I will never forget to see all the important woman in my life together dancing their heart out in unison.
Describe a hurdle you had to overcome in your relationship or during your wedding planning.
A hurdle we had to work hard to overcome was slowing down, taking in moment by moment, and enjoying the engagement season. It is so easy to get lost in the hustle and bustle of all the planning. We kept the main things as the priority while trying our best to not get stressed out by all the details. Instead we would space out the large tasks and reward ourselves with an unplugged date night afterwards. It is easy to lose track of the whole reason why you are taking this step in the first place when you see the big to-do list and all the build up events. Staying present and light hearted was key! We learned to not sweat the small things but communicate what was most important to each of us.
Any special ways you incorporated your family or family history into your wedding day?
At our guest book station we had a “love throughout the generations” tribute to our families on each side. We included wedding photos of our parents and grandparents from years ago.
I did a first look with my grandparents which is something I’ll never forget — I made them a day of letter which included pictures from my younger years.
I gifted my dad a personal scripted softball which honored him as my coach throughout the years. It read, “out of all the walks we’ve took over the years this one is my favorite”. This was a reference to our many years spent on the ball field. I tossed it to him during our first look.
I wore my mom’s garder and kept her moms handkerchief as a token of remembrance for my late grandma. I also wore my mom’s pearls as an anklet to keep her close all day long:
My sister gifted me a gold ring with our maiden name engraved in it. She wrote “a Lee you’ll always be”. Since she gave it to me I have yet to take it off and it was a beautiful way to remember our bond as sisters before officially accepting a new last name.
My Grandma made me a customized ring pillow by hand and stitched on part of the bridesmaid dresses to add a pop of color.
Instead of doing a traditional bouquet toss I took the microphone and made a dedication to my Mother. She has always been my flower gardening lady and dedicating my bouquet to her was a sweet way to honor all that she has done for me. It was hard to plan a wedding long distance with my mom because we are so close. I found myself missing her terribly throughout the process but she always poured her love into me from afar. I cherish her with my whole heart and consider myself blessed to still have her here today. Another fun detail was my mom and I originally wanted to do the followers ourselves. We realized this was a massive task so instead she hand thrifted each of the vases used at our wedding from her favorite second hand stores, estate sales, along with family heirlooms.
What part of your wedding day was/is most important to you?
The most important piece of our wedding day was spending it together hand in hand in the company of our favorite people. We were very thoughtful on incorporating a first look to soak in the moment as a couple. We also spent the night as a unit dancing away and making our way to hug guests. Looking back I am so glad our memories of our wedding are together!
Not only did we want to show our love for one another we also thought this is a time where we will have all our people in one place. How can we recipricate that love we feel to everyone who came to support us? Of course we wanted to create a beautiful reception space, but more we wanted to leave our guest so a feeling embraced by our love.
A memorable detail that stood out was each guest found a personal note from Cam and I at their assigned seat. Out of all the details, the most complemented one we received was from the notes. This letter not only served as a place card but included individualized stories, inside jokes, personal antidotes, and memories to truly welcome each member of our guest list. This allowed us to personally connect with each member in attendance outside of just giving them a quick hug on the day. It’s nearly impossible to talk to everyone at the wedding itself or to get some face time so this created an environment where we could still communicate our gratitude. Our whole mission was to have every single person be seen, felt known, and experience all the love. all our guest still talk about how this unique touch was so thoughtful and made our wedding so much sweeter. There were tears, laughs, and so many smiles around the room. Many of them even have them still hung up on their fridge today.
What is the best thing you’ve learned from one another?
We have learned that being married to your best friend is one of the greatest gifts that this world can offer. There is so much joy to be found in the day-to-day time of getting to do life along side someone who loves you so well. We do our best to ground ourselves in this truth and use it as a form of daily gratitude.
What is your favorite thing about each other?
Cam is the best encourager I know. If you know him, you know words of encouragement are his spiritual gift. He not only has a desire for people to succeed but he works hard to help them succeed with no selfish ambition and often at personal expense. A win for others is truly a win for him.
Erin brings joy into every room she walks into. Her light shines so bright and it is 100% authentic. She has a genuine curiosity with everyone she meets (she is the best question asker I have ever known) and always finds the good in them. Erin makes me laugh all the time. She just makes life more fun.
Since we have been together our relationship with God is stronger, relationship with friends are deeper, and relationship with our individual selves are healthier.
What was your favorite part about planning your wedding?
Design and creativity tend to be my favorite side hobbies so when it came to brainstorming our wedding day I felt like a giddy kid. The design inspiration stemmed from my diaries growing up and merging new concepts of all
the things Cam and I love: sunshine, wild flowers, coastal towns, farmers markets, backyard gardens, journaling, our church, etc. I wanted a dreamy fairytale wedding taking aspects of all the items listed above. I kept the foundation of the design simple and classy but allowing freedom to play with whimsical femininity.
It was amazing to see the final design dream come together at the end!
If you had one piece of advice for other couples, what would it be?
Choose each other over and over again and seek to out serve your spouse. We’ve learned that relationships go through peaks and valleys, much like seasons in our life. Circumstances can become overwhelming but when you know your spouse chooses you everyday it makes the big things seem less big, all while the small mundane things are simply better. Marriage is not a 24/7 highlight reel but beauty comes from getting through the difficult times together. That is where the most growth, connection, and transformation happens.
What is the most honest thing you can say about love?
True Love is: Giddy, sincere, vulnerable, and grounding. Steady love is relentless, selfless and consistent.
Venue: Venue at Birchwood / @birchwoodtn
Planner: Violet and Vines Events / @violet.vines.events
Photographer: Ava Vienneau / @avavnophoto
Florals: Wood Fern Floral Designs / @woodfern_floraldesign
Beauty: One 10 Beauty House / @one10beauty
Catering: The Alley on Main / @alleyonmain
Videography: Relive Studio / @relivestudiotn
Rentals: Southern Events Party Rental / @southerneventsonline
Bar: The Drinking Well / @thedrinkingwell_
DJ: Nik Lizcano / @djniklizcano
Gown 1: The White Magnolia / @whitemagnoliabridal
Gown 2: Made with Love Bridal / @madewithlovebridal
Cake: Publix Bakery / @publix
Personal Cake: Baked on 8th / @bakedon8th
Tux: Generation Tux / @generationtux
Publisher at The White Wren and Bajan Wed, Award Winning Photography + Videographer at Live View Studios, Dad, 80s music lover, crunchy health advocate
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